03 DecWhy knowing your reader’s criteria may mean the difference between speaking your customer’s language and Talking to Yourself…

Once you know what your reader’s “hot-buttons” are, you’re one or two steps away from being able to hand your client’s what they want…images

And much more importantly “How” to move them where they want to be (or where you want them to be)—Keep your personal ethics in mind while using this! The reason for this is simply because people imagine in their minds what would get them motivated to “Buy”.

All too often I have spoken with colleagues…especially in the fields of psychotherapy and coaching who can  “sell” to ONLY one person-THEMSELVES!

Now granted, selling yourself an idea (maybe a weight-loss diet?) is an invaluable skill.

It could save your life.

But…

You’re reading this to make your writing more persuasive or at the very least to learn from a couple guys who have spent countless hours learning the craft.  If you’re really interested in knowing what is going to peak your reader’s attention and get them right where you want them…

you need to know exactly what is going to get their adrenalin pumping—meeting or even mentioning your reader’s criteria WILL DO JUST THAT.

Just to get definitions out of the way, criteria is “What’s in it for them”—it’s what is driving your customer’s behavior AND it can the GIANT lever for your influence.

And bascically…your reader or customer may NOT even be aware of what their criteria are…

Yet, it can be the most powerful thing you MUST know about your prospect.

Here’s the generic example:

I’ve had the opportunity to work with MANY client’s who have wanted to lose weight.

Often times I simply ask them, “What’s important to you about losing weight?”

They may say, “I’d be healthy!”…or…”I won’t have to worry about getting sick!”

That’s good to know, isn’t it?  If I was in the weight-loss business or selling a diet product, that would be an easy sell.

From here you might ask, “What’s important about being healthy?”…And they may say, “I would be FREE!”  or “I wouldn’t have to worry ever again!”

Oh…FREEDOM may be one of those nice levers for your influence, isn’t it?

If you’re asking these questions live and the person’s face doesn’t LIGHT-UP…that’s not it.  If it does, you’re on the right track.

For copywriting, you need to know your reader…it’s that simple.

So here goes…

Exercise:

With a partner or friend, pick some goal or something they want to have happen in the future…

Ask them…”What’s important about ( )?”

Next…Ask them…”What’s important about (answer above)?”

Try this within with 20-30 people over the next week until it is completely intuitive.  Notice how it changes the way you think about copywriting and influence.

What difference does knowing a person’s criteria make?

Cheers!

20 NovKnow how your use of mind-reading may be your most valuable skill…

If you haven’t yet taken a moment to consider what specifically is driving your reader to act now, this may be the most valuable post you’re going to read this week.cliff

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Because you’re reading this, you probably have some interest in persuading through written text, advertising, or simply becoming more compelling to your audience.  You’re here and that’s a great start to becoming more tuned in to the essential know-how and skills that can transform your words into the gospel truth for you reader.

That’s what this post is about…  Know what is true for you reader because when you have some idea of where your reader is at,  you’ll know how to tactically insert your persuasion to get the most bang for your buck…

Knowing where to spend your time…and money.

How do you become familiar with someone…if they are not in front of you?  Simple.  Tell a story in your text.  By considering where your reader may be coming from and going to…

  • How did they come to find you?
  • Who are you serving?
  • What is motivating them to buy?
  • What don’t they have, yet, that your product or service is offering?
  • Where is their pain?
  • What might happen if they don’t act?
  • What is the beginning, middle, and end of their story once they buy from you?

Maybe you have seen the movie Star Wars (that’s a safe mind-read!)…if so, you know that young Luke began his life as a farmer on some dusty planet in the middle of no where…And his life was about to change in a BIG way.  He was meant for something far grander than he ever could have imagined.

He was just on the brink of making a HUGE choice…to leave what was familiar…

Did you ever wonder why that is the beginning of the HIGHEST grossing movie of ALL TIME…?

Did you also know that people will opt for familiarity every time, unless someone intervenes (maybe you)?

Exercise: Now… before moving on, answer some or all of the above bullet points.  What story is going to move your reader?  What will get their juices flowing to move away from what they have always done and into their pocket books…to take the first step to buy now!

Remember… keep it short, sweet, yet, powerful.